I think this is an example of why females and trying to meet and woo them sucks. How many movies, chick flicks, have you seen where something cute or weird happens, the guy does something weird or sweet for the girl, and the girls watching it are all "awwwww thats so sweet I wish a guy would do that for me!" NO, you DON'T. All that stuff that happens in movies- buying a random plane ticket to come visit when they go to college, playing guitar outside their window at 3am, sending secret admirer stuff- in the real world, it all gets construed as stalker-ish. Girls freak out, think its weird, creepy, etc. Its nice to think that being honest and affectionate and doing something thoughtful creative and sweet for someone you're interested in will work, but fact is, it won't, it doesn't, and yet girls continually wish for that stuff while repeatedly freaking out when anything nearly like that ever actually happens. Its ridiculous.