Why is it that being unhappy is so passe? Despite the fact that everyone is continually chasing their dreams, repeatedly unhappy with jobs, tired with this or that, buying a new something, what is so fearfully taboo about just being unhappy?

Why is it a dirty little secret that we or friends or family members are in counseling or taking medication? Being that 50% of marriages end in divorce these days, it shouldn't be so surprising anyway...yet its some skeleton that needs stay in the closet, as if people might be offended if they found out you were depressed, cause HEY, maybe its their fault, maybe you're unhappy with THEM. Is that it?