How do YOU make YOUR life NOT about YOU? Is that even possible? Is it possible, as a naturally egocentric human being, to ever be completely selfless, in an action or as a person? I think the only people that can truly answer that are those that have jumped in front of a bullet for someone...but even then, is that action out of some inner desire to save the person because you'd be sad if they were gone, because YOU care about them? Would you take a bullet for a stranger, or an enemy??